Saturday, February 7, 2026

Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT): The Balance of Change and Acceptance

 The word "Dialectical" comes from the idea that two seemingly opposite things can be true at the same time. In the context of therapy, the two opposing forces are Acceptance and Change.


Developed by Dr. Marsha Linehan in the late 1980s, DBT was born out of the discovery that focusing solely on change (as traditional CBT does) often felt invalidating to highly sensitive clients, causing them to drop out of treatment. Conversely, focusing solely on acceptance didn't provide the tools necessary to build a "life worth living." DBT solves this by teaching clients to accept themselves as they are in this moment, while simultaneously working hard to change their behavior.

Monday, February 2, 2026

Creative Arts Therapy: Healing Beyond the Reach of Words

 While traditional "talk therapy" relies on the cognitive ability to verbalize feelings, Creative Arts Therapy (CAT) recognizes that our deepest traumas, joys, and conflicts often reside in a place that words cannot reach. CAT is an integrative healthcare profession that uses various art forms—including visual arts, music, dance/movement, drama, and poetry—within a therapeutic relationship.


The core philosophy is that the creative process itself is healing. It allows for "externalization"—taking an internal, chaotic feeling and giving it a tangible, physical form outside the body. This creates a safe distance between the person and their pain, allowing for observation, manipulation, and eventually, transformation.

Friday, January 30, 2026

Couples Therapy: Navigating the Landscape of "Us"

 Couples Therapy (also known as marriage counseling or relationship therapy) is a branch of psychotherapy that focuses on the relationship between two people rather than the individual psychology of a single person. While individual therapy focuses on the "I," couples therapy focuses on the "Between"—the communication patterns, attachment styles, and shared narratives that define a partnership.


The goal of modern couples therapy has evolved. It is no longer just about "staying together" at all costs; it is about creating Relational Intelligence. Whether a couple is seeking to heal from an affair, navigate a transition, or simply improve their communication, the therapy provides a safe, neutral container to explore the underlying dynamics of their bond.

Tuesday, January 27, 2026

Coherence Therapy: The Art of Emotional Depathologizing

 Coherence Therapy (CT), formerly known as Depth-Oriented Brief Therapy, was developed by Bruce Ecker and Laurel Hulley in the 1990s. While most therapies view symptoms (like panic, depression, or procrastination) as "disorders" to be suppressed or managed, Coherence Therapy views them as coherent.


In this framework, every symptom is a necessary and logical expression of a "pro-symptom position"—a deep, unconscious truth or "schema" that the person learned earlier in life to keep themselves safe. The goal of CT is not to fight the symptom, but to bring the unconscious wisdom behind it into the light of conscious awareness, where it can be permanently updated.

Monday, January 26, 2026

CBT and REBT: Rewiring the Architecture of the Mind

 The core philosophy of Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) can be summed up by a quote from the Stoic philosopher Epictetus: "Men are disturbed not by things, but by the view which they take of them."

CBT is a structured, goal-oriented form of psychotherapy that focuses on identifying and changing negative thought patterns and behaviors. Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT), developed by Albert Ellis in the 1950s, was the first true form of CBT. It takes a more philosophical and active-directive approach, asserting that our "irrational beliefs" are the primary cause of emotional suffering.


While traditional therapy might look into the distant past, CBT/REBT is focused on the "Here and Now." It provides clients with a toolkit to become their own therapists by understanding the mechanics of their own minds.